Successful Ways is Archive: to Work With Clients Who Struggle With Deep Feelings of ShameWhen a client experiences shame, they live in constant fear of being rejected..
Archive: Successful Ways to Work With Clients Who Struggle With Deep Feelings of ShameWhen a client experiences shame, they live in constant fear of being rejected.
they is And become trapped in the avoidance strategies they create to escape the pain.However, shame left untreated grows more powerful..
And they become trapped in the avoidance strategies they create to escape the pain.However, shame left untreated grows more powerful.
it is And can often lead our clients into behaviors that invite even greater shame.But to effectively work with shame, we have to understand its neurobiology and why it’s so difficult to erase its deep tracing on the nervous system..
And it can often lead our clients into behaviors that invite even greater shame.But to effectively work with shame, we have to understand its neurobiology and why it’s so difficult to erase its deep tracing on the nervous system.
We is need to know why shame vigilantly protects itself, and how our traditional treatments may be sustaining shame or driving it even deeper.That’s why we’ve brought together 19 of the top experts in our field to bring you . ..
We need to know why shame vigilantly protects itself, and how our traditional treatments may be sustaining shame or driving it even deeper.That’s why we’ve brought together 19 of the top experts in our field to bring you . .
With ShameHow is .How to Work to Break the Power of Shame by Engaging itMarsha Linehan, PhD Kelly McGonigal, PhD Ron Siegel, PsyDJoan Borysenko, PhD Bill O’Hanlon, LMFTThe one counterintuitive technique that removes the fear of rejection from shameThe most common type of shame (and why clients often believe they caused it)How to approach treatment when a client’s shame is legitimateThe Way a Shame Posture Impacts Emotions (And How to Bring Clients Out of It)Peter Levine, PhD Bill O’Hanlon, LMFTRon Siegel, PsyD Kelly McGonigal, PhDWhy a posture of shame looks identical to a posture of traumaHow to adjust your office seating to avoid triggering your client’s shameA guided exercise to help bring clients out of a posture of shameHow to Work With Shame When it’s Connected to TraumaPart 1: A Way to Heal Trauma-Based Shame Using a 3-Dimensional SpaceBessel van der Kolk, PhD Bill O’Hanlon, LMFTThe “meaning-making” system that allows shame to take over a client’s lifeWhy differentiation is so crucial in eliminating shamePart 2: Rewiring the Body’s Reaction to Shame and TraumaPat Ogden, PhD Kelly McGonigal, PhDHow attachment shame can lead to broken adult relationshipsHow to pull a client out of hypoarousal when shame causes them to dissociateHow to shift the way a client physically organizes their history of shameHow to Shift Clients Out of Feelings of UnworthinessRick Hanson, PhD Ron Siegel, PsyD Kelly McGonigal, PhDJoan Borysenko, PhD Bill O’Hanlon, LMFTWhy it’s crucial to approach shame differently for introverts and extrovertsHow to use neuroplasticity to erase the old learning that promotes shameWhy clients need to tolerate feelings of shame before undoing themHow to Work With the Inner Voice of ShameRichard Schwartz, PhD Joan Borysenko, PhDThe 2-part phenomenon that creates shameThe inner personality that you must approach first (so it doesn’t sabotage your work)The one thing you need to do to get the inner critic to voluntarily disarmThe 4-Part Skill That Can Build Trust With Your ClientDan Siegel, MD Kelly McGonigal, PhD Ron Siegel, PsyDWhat happens when the hippocampus fails to integrate implicit memoriesThe difficult choice point a neglected child faces that invites lifelong shameHow to help clients release deep feelings of inner defectivenessHow to Work With Shame That Developed in ChildhoodPart 1 : The Generational Effects of Shame on Loved OnesSue Johnson, EdD Ron Siegel, PsyD Kelly McGonigal, PhDJoan Borysenko, PhD Bill O’Hanlon, LMFTThe one element of shame that creates havoc in relationshipsHow shame is passed on to future generationsThe parenting style that generates an inner incompetence in childrenPart 2: How to Work with Shame without Retriggering ItZindel Segal, PhD Elisha Goldstein, PhD Joan Borysenko, PhDWhy some clients may be unaware that shame is fueling their behaviorThe first thing you should identify when treating a client’s shameWhy it can be risky to reveal the developmental connection to your client’s shameThe Impact of Shame Messaging and How to Dismantle ItGonigal, PhD Terry Real, MSW, LICSWKelly McJoan Borysenko, PhD Bill O’Hanlon, LMFTHow unrealistic standards can lay the foundation for systemic shameThe 3-second indulgence that helps unravel inner harshnessThe Neurobiology of ShamePart 1: How Shame Triggers the Body’s Shut-Down ResponseStephen Porges, PhDHow to avoid triggering your client’s physiological response to shameThe one intervention that can stop the body from shutting downHow the body’s reflexive response to shame can lead to dissociationPart 2: How the Psychobiology of Shame Can Help Your WorkStan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT Ron Siegel, PsyD Bill O’Hanlon, LMFTHow the nervous system traps your client in shameThe one thing a loved one can do to regulate their partner’s shameWhat can go wrong when the practitioner’s shame gets triggered in a sessionHow to Unravel the Shame in RelationshipsPart 1: The Crucial Role of an Attachment Figure in Treating ShameSue Johnson, EdDThe big risk a client must take to gain a corrective experienceThe one assumption about love and caring that we almost always get wrongPart 2: How Shame in a Relationship Can Trigger PTSDStan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT Bill O’Hanlon, LMFT Kelly McGonigal, PhDHow to deal with a couple when one partner feels ashamed and the other feels betrayedThe important thing a client needs to see when coming out of a shut-down stateThe one type of shame that can lead to a partner developing PTSDGet 2 Bonuses That Give You Even More Strategies for Working with a Client’s ShameHow to Work With the Institutional Racism That Feeds ShamePhD Shelly Harrell, PhDLaurel Parnell, Ron Siegel, PsyD Kelly McGonigal, PhDHow a client’s particular culture impacts how they deal with shameHow to help clients find the voice that has been silenced (and use it to undo shame)What happens when your client internalizes shame messaging from the environmentCase Study: One Intervention That Helped an Iraq War Veteran Release ShamePeter Levine, PhD Joan Borysenko, PhDRon Siegel, PsyD Kelly McGonigal, PhDWhy you should get this one important piece of information from a client right awayOne misconception about working with members of the military.
.How to Work With ShameHow to Break the Power of Shame by Engaging itMarsha Linehan, PhD Kelly McGonigal, PhD Ron Siegel, PsyDJoan Borysenko, PhD Bill O’Hanlon, LMFTThe one counterintuitive technique that removes the fear of rejection from shameThe most common type of shame (and why clients often believe they caused it)How to approach treatment when a client’s shame is legitimateThe Way a Shame Posture Impacts Emotions (And How to Bring Clients Out of It)Peter Levine, PhD Bill O’Hanlon, LMFTRon Siegel, PsyD Kelly McGonigal, PhDWhy a posture of shame looks identical to a posture of traumaHow to adjust your office seating to avoid triggering your client’s shameA guided exercise to help bring clients out of a posture of shameHow to Work With Shame When it’s Connected to TraumaPart 1: A Way to Heal Trauma-Based Shame Using a 3-Dimensional SpaceBessel van der Kolk, PhD Bill O’Hanlon, LMFTThe “meaning-making” system that allows shame to take over a client’s lifeWhy differentiation is so crucial in eliminating shamePart 2: Rewiring the Body’s Reaction to Shame and TraumaPat Ogden, PhD Kelly McGonigal, PhDHow attachment shame can lead to broken adult relationshipsHow to pull a client out of hypoarousal when shame causes them to dissociateHow to shift the way a client physically organizes their history of shameHow to Shift Clients Out of Feelings of UnworthinessRick Hanson, PhD Ron Siegel, PsyD Kelly McGonigal, PhDJoan Borysenko, PhD Bill O’Hanlon, LMFTWhy it’s crucial to approach shame differently for introverts and extrovertsHow to use neuroplasticity to erase the old learning that promotes shameWhy clients need to tolerate feelings of shame before undoing themHow to Work With the Inner Voice of ShameRichard Schwartz, PhD Joan Borysenko, PhDThe 2-part phenomenon that creates shameThe inner personality that you must approach first (so it doesn’t sabotage your work)The one thing you need to do to get the inner critic to voluntarily disarmThe 4-Part Skill That Can Build Trust With Your ClientDan Siegel, MD Kelly McGonigal, PhD Ron Siegel, PsyDWhat happens when the hippocampus fails to integrate implicit memoriesThe difficult choice point a neglected child faces that invites lifelong shameHow to help clients release deep feelings of inner defectivenessHow to Work With Shame That Developed in ChildhoodPart 1 : The Generational Effects of Shame on Loved OnesSue Johnson, EdD Ron Siegel, PsyD Kelly McGonigal, PhDJoan Borysenko, PhD Bill O’Hanlon, LMFTThe one element of shame that creates havoc in relationshipsHow shame is passed on to future generationsThe parenting style that generates an inner incompetence in childrenPart 2: How to Work with Shame without Retriggering ItZindel Segal, PhD Elisha Goldstein, PhD Joan Borysenko, PhDWhy some clients may be unaware that shame is fueling their behaviorThe first thing you should identify when treating a client’s shameWhy it can be risky to reveal the developmental connection to your client’s shameThe Impact of Shame Messaging and How to Dismantle ItGonigal, PhD Terry Real, MSW, LICSWKelly McJoan Borysenko, PhD Bill O’Hanlon, LMFTHow unrealistic standards can lay the foundation for systemic shameThe 3-second indulgence that helps unravel inner harshnessThe Neurobiology of ShamePart 1: How Shame Triggers the Body’s Shut-Down ResponseStephen Porges, PhDHow to avoid triggering your client’s physiological response to shameThe one intervention that can stop the body from shutting downHow the body’s reflexive response to shame can lead to dissociationPart 2: How the Psychobiology of Shame Can Help Your WorkStan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT Ron Siegel, PsyD Bill O’Hanlon, LMFTHow the nervous system traps your client in shameThe one thing a loved one can do to regulate their partner’s shameWhat can go wrong when the practitioner’s shame gets triggered in a sessionHow to Unravel the Shame in RelationshipsPart 1: The Crucial Role of an Attachment Figure in Treating ShameSue Johnson, EdDThe big risk a client must take to gain a corrective experienceThe one assumption about love and caring that we almost always get wrongPart 2: How Shame in a Relationship Can Trigger PTSDStan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT Bill O’Hanlon, LMFT Kelly McGonigal, PhDHow to deal with a couple when one partner feels ashamed and the other feels betrayedThe important thing a client needs to see when coming out of a shut-down stateThe one type of shame that can lead to a partner developing PTSDGet 2 Bonuses That Give You Even More Strategies for Working with a Client’s ShameHow to Work With the Institutional Racism That Feeds ShamePhD Shelly Harrell, PhDLaurel Parnell, Ron Siegel, PsyD Kelly McGonigal, PhDHow a client’s particular culture impacts how they deal with shameHow to help clients find the voice that has been silenced (and use it to undo shame)What happens when your client internalizes shame messaging from the environmentCase Study: One Intervention That Helped an Iraq War Veteran Release ShamePeter Levine, PhD Joan Borysenko, PhDRon Siegel, PsyD Kelly McGonigal, PhDWhy you should get this one important piece of information from a client right awayOne misconception about working with members of the military