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• Archive: Are You Getting Swallowed Up by Your Own Bitterness and It’s Keeping You from Getting What You Really Want Out of Life?You have the Choice of Forgiveness or You Can Choose to Allow Your Pain and Grief to Tear You Apart.Dear Friend,Sometimes it seems that other people’s missions in life are to tear you down, spoil your day, ruin your mood, or just make your life miserable.I have been where you are now.
• Your thoughts are spinning around and around and stuck on the same thing.
• You wake up in the morning and there you are – like a dog endlessly chasing its own tail.Those restless worries are the ugly byproducts of betrayal, aggression, insensitivity, and inconsiderate acts.
• Do you hold grudges?Do you harbor resentment towards someone?Are there people you haven’t forgiven for something they did to you ten, fifteen, even twenty years ago?Are you still beating yourself up about something you did that caused someone pain, suffering or harm?Have you ever intentionally or unintentionally done something to another person that hurt or hindered them?Have you just neglected to do something you felt, or others felt, you should have done?These wounds can leave you with lasting feelings of anger, bitterness and even vengeance… especially if the insult or pain inflicted is caused by a dagger slammed right into your back by someone you love and trust.I’ve been down that road.
• It’s not as easy to forgive and move on with your life when the wound is that deep.