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• Archive: Topic Areas:Couples Therapy | WorkshopCategory:Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2017Faculty:Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFTDuration:1:20:34Format:Audio OnlyOriginal Program Date :Apr 02, 2017 Description CC17 Workshop 11 - The “Deal Breaker”: Detection and Intervention - Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT The PACT therapist is always moving couples toward secure functioning.
• A deal breaker is a conflict between partners for which there is no workable solution.
• Deal- breakers lead partners to a dead-end and therefore threaten the existence of the relationship.
• The couples therapist must play the long game as partners almost always are playing the short game.
• To them, facing a deal-breaker squarely triggers fear of loss, and so it is avoided.